I get worried when people tell me I am too up-tight. This is not because I think I am, it is because I feel that those people are not taking life serious enough. I am being judged for not drinking or having sex ''just for fun''. I have been advised to take less time with my charity work and with my RA job and spend more time ''having fun''. I feel bad for the person who gave me this advice. What goals do they have and who are they setting done? This person says that they are happy, that they feel free, but I'm just not sure. I wont change my ways and I wont be able to get them to change their's but I'm still concerned. How are we going to be able to fix big problems if the citizens of this country think I am too serious?